The key is to differentiate the log twice and take the expectation. Applying the quotient rule, the Hessian of $\log f(X,\theta)$ with respect to $\theta$ is
\begin{align*}
\nabla^2_\theta \log f(X,\theta)
= \nabla_\theta\!\left(\frac{\nabla_\theta f(X,\theta)}{f(X,\theta)}\right)
= \frac{\nabla^2_\theta f(X,\theta)}{f(X,\theta)} - \frac{\nabla_\theta f(X,\theta)\, \nabla_\theta f(X,\theta)^\top}{f(X,\theta)^2}.
\end{align*}
Taking the expectation under $\mathbb{P}_\theta$ and using the regularity assumption to exchange differentiation and integration:
\begin{align*}
\mathbb{E}_\theta\!\left[\nabla^2_\theta \log f(X,\theta)\right]
&= \int_{\mathcal{X}} \frac{\nabla^2_\theta f(x,\theta)}{f(x,\theta)}\, f(x,\theta)\, dx
- \mathbb{E}_\theta\!\left[\frac{\nabla_\theta f(X,\theta)\, \nabla_\theta f(X,\theta)^\top}{f(X,\theta)^2}\right] \\
&= \nabla^2_\theta \int_{\mathcal{X}} f(x,\theta)\, dx
- \mathbb{E}_\theta\!\left[\nabla_\theta \log f(X,\theta)\, \nabla_\theta \log f(X,\theta)^\top\right] \\
&= 0 - I(\theta).
\end{align*}
The first integral vanishes because $\int_{\mathcal{X}} f(x,\theta)\, dx = 1$, and differentiating a constant twice gives zero. Rearranging gives $I(\theta) = -\mathbb{E}_\theta[\nabla^2_\theta \log f(X,\theta)]$.