[proofplan]
We prove preservation by comparing an arbitrary limiting cone over $D$ with the limiting cone obtained by lifting a limiting cone over $F\circ D$ through the creation property. Since limits are unique up to unique isomorphism, the image of the original limiting cone is isomorphic as a cone to a limiting cone in $\mathcal D$, hence is itself limiting. Reflection is more direct: if a cone over $D$ maps to a limiting cone over $F\circ D$, then the creation property says that the unique lift of that image cone is limiting; the given cone is already such a lift, so it must be that limiting cone.
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[step:Fix the notation for cones and the creation hypothesis]
For an object $A\in\mathcal C$, write $\Delta A:J\to\mathcal C$ for the constant diagram at $A$. A cone over $D$ with vertex $A$ is a natural transformation
\begin{align*}
\alpha:\Delta A\Rightarrow D.
\end{align*}
Its image under $F$ is the cone
\begin{align*}
F\alpha:\Delta F(A)\Rightarrow F\circ D
\end{align*}
whose component at $j\in J$ is $F(\alpha_j):F(A)\to F(D(j))$.
We use the strict lifting convention for creation: the lifted vertex and cone have literal images, not merely specified isomorphic images. Thus the hypothesis that $F$ creates the limit of $D$ means the following. If
\begin{align*}
\rho:\Delta Y\Rightarrow F\circ D
\end{align*}
is a limiting cone in $\mathcal D$, then there exist an object $X\in\mathcal C$ and a cone
\begin{align*}
\widetilde\rho:\Delta X\Rightarrow D
\end{align*}
such that $F(X)=Y$ and $F\widetilde\rho=\rho$; this lifted cone is limiting in $\mathcal C$, and it is unique among cones over $D$ whose image is $\rho$.
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[step:Show that $F$ preserves the limiting cone]
Let
\begin{align*}
\lambda:\Delta L\Rightarrow D
\end{align*}
be a limiting cone in $\mathcal C$.
By the added hypothesis that $F\circ D$ has a limiting cone, choose a limiting cone
\begin{align*}
\rho:\Delta Y\Rightarrow F\circ D
\end{align*}
in $\mathcal D$. Since $F$ creates the limit of $D$, $\rho$ has a unique lifted cone
\begin{align*}
\widetilde\rho:\Delta X\Rightarrow D
\end{align*}
with $F(X)=Y$, $F\widetilde\rho=\rho$, and $\widetilde\rho$ limiting in $\mathcal C$.
Now $\lambda$ and $\widetilde\rho$ are both limiting cones over $D$. Therefore there is a unique isomorphism
\begin{align*}
u:L\to X
\end{align*}
in $\mathcal C$ such that, for every object $j\in J$,
\begin{align*}
\widetilde\rho_j\circ u=\lambda_j.
\end{align*}
Applying $F$ gives, for every $j\in J$,
\begin{align*}
\rho_j\circ F(u)=F(\lambda_j).
\end{align*}
Thus $F(u):F(L)\to Y$ is an isomorphism of cones from $F\lambda$ to $\rho$.
Since $\rho$ is a limiting cone in $\mathcal D$ and $F\lambda$ is isomorphic to $\rho$ as a cone over $F\circ D$, the cone $F\lambda$ is also limiting. Hence $F$ preserves the limit of $D$.
[guided]
Let
\begin{align*}
\lambda:\Delta L\Rightarrow D
\end{align*}
be a limiting cone in $\mathcal C$. To prove preservation, we must show that the image cone
\begin{align*}
F\lambda:\Delta F(L)\Rightarrow F\circ D
\end{align*}
is limiting in $\mathcal D$.
The additional hypothesis that $F\circ D$ has a limit gives us a reference limiting cone in $\mathcal D$. Namely, choose a limiting cone
\begin{align*}
\rho:\Delta Y\Rightarrow F\circ D.
\end{align*}
Because $F$ creates the limit of $D$, this cone has a unique lift
\begin{align*}
\widetilde\rho:\Delta X\Rightarrow D
\end{align*}
with $F(X)=Y$ and $F\widetilde\rho=\rho$, and the lifted cone $\widetilde\rho$ is limiting in $\mathcal C$.
Now we compare $\lambda$ with $\widetilde\rho$ inside $\mathcal C$. Both are limiting cones over the same diagram $D:J\to\mathcal C$. By the universal property of the limiting cone $\widetilde\rho$, there is a unique morphism
\begin{align*}
u:L\to X
\end{align*}
such that
\begin{align*}
\widetilde\rho_j\circ u=\lambda_j
\end{align*}
for every object $j\in J$. Since $\lambda$ is also limiting, the same universal property in the opposite direction supplies an inverse morphism, so $u$ is an isomorphism of cone vertices.
Applying the functor $F$ to the cone identities gives
\begin{align*}
F(\widetilde\rho_j)\circ F(u)=F(\lambda_j).
\end{align*}
Since $F\widetilde\rho=\rho$, this becomes
\begin{align*}
\rho_j\circ F(u)=F(\lambda_j)
\end{align*}
for every $j\in J$. Thus $F(u):F(L)\to Y$ is an isomorphism of cones from $F\lambda$ to $\rho$.
A cone is limiting exactly when it satisfies the universal property, and that property is invariant under isomorphism of cones. Since $\rho$ is limiting and $F\lambda$ is isomorphic to $\rho$ as a cone over $F\circ D$, the cone $F\lambda$ is limiting. This proves that $F$ preserves the limit of $D$.
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[/step]
[step:Show that $F$ reflects limiting cones]
Let
\begin{align*}
\mu:\Delta X\Rightarrow D
\end{align*}
be a cone in $\mathcal C$ such that
\begin{align*}
F\mu:\Delta F(X)\Rightarrow F\circ D
\end{align*}
is limiting in $\mathcal D$.
Since $F$ creates the limit of $D$, the limiting cone $F\mu$ has a unique lift to a cone over $D$, and that lift is limiting in $\mathcal C$. But $\mu$ is itself a lift of $F\mu$, because its image under $F$ is exactly $F\mu$. By uniqueness of the lift in the creation property, $\mu$ is the lifted limiting cone. Therefore $\mu$ is limiting in $\mathcal C$.
This proves that $F$ reflects the limit of $D$.
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[step:Conclude preservation and reflection]
The first argument shows that every limiting cone over $D$ is sent by $F$ to a limiting cone over $F\circ D$, so $F$ preserves the limit of $D$. The second argument shows that every cone over $D$ whose image under $F$ is limiting must itself be limiting, so $F$ reflects the limit of $D$. Hence created limits are both preserved and reflected.
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