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The fundamental vector field $\xi_M$ is generated by the one-parameter subgroup $\exp(t\xi)$ acting on $M$. Since the action is symplectic, every time-$t$ action map preserves the symplectic form $\theta$, and differentiating this pullback identity gives $\mathcal L_{\xi_M}\theta=0$. Finally, Cartan's formula and the closedness of the symplectic form identify this vanishing condition with the closedness of $\iota_{\xi_M}\theta$.
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[step:Identify the flow of the fundamental vector field with the one-parameter group action]Fix $\xi\in\mathfrak g$. Define a smooth family of diffeomorphisms
\begin{align*}
\Phi_t:M\to M
\end{align*}
by
\begin{align*}
\Phi_t(x)=\exp(t\xi)\cdot x.
\end{align*}
By the definition of the fundamental vector field associated to a left action,
\begin{align*}
\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\Phi_t(x)=\xi_M(x)
\end{align*}
for every $x\in M$. More generally, using the one-parameter subgroup identity $\exp((t+s)\xi)=\exp(t\xi)\exp(s\xi)$ and the left action law, the curve $t\mapsto \Phi_t(x)$ has velocity $\xi_M(\Phi_t(x))$. Hence $(\Phi_t)$ is the flow of $\xi_M$.[/step]
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[guided]We first convert the infinitesimal object $\xi_M$ into a flow, because the Lie derivative of a form is computed by differentiating pullbacks along a flow. For the fixed element $\xi\in\mathfrak g$, define
\begin{align*}
\Phi_t:M\to M
\end{align*}
by
\begin{align*}
\Phi_t(x)=\exp(t\xi)\cdot x.
\end{align*}
This is a smooth family of diffeomorphisms because each $\exp(t\xi)\in G$ acts on $M$ by a diffeomorphism.
By the chosen convention for the fundamental vector field,
\begin{align*}
\xi_M(x)=\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\exp(t\xi)\cdot x.
\end{align*}
Thus the initial velocity of the curve $t\mapsto \Phi_t(x)$ is exactly $\xi_M(x)$.
To check that $\Phi_t$ is the full flow, not only the correct initial velocity at $t=0$, fix $s\in\mathbb R$. The velocity at time $s$ is computed by shifting the parameter:
\begin{align*}
\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\Phi_{s+t}(x)=\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\exp((s+t)\xi)\cdot x.
\end{align*}
Since $\xi$ generates a one-parameter subgroup, $\exp((s+t)\xi)=\exp(t\xi)\exp(s\xi)$. Therefore
\begin{align*}
\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\Phi_{s+t}(x)=\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\exp(t\xi)\cdot(\exp(s\xi)\cdot x).
\end{align*}
The right-hand side is, by definition of $\xi_M$, equal to
\begin{align*}
\xi_M(\Phi_s(x)).
\end{align*}
Hence the curve $s\mapsto\Phi_s(x)$ solves the differential equation for the vector field $\xi_M$, so $(\Phi_t)$ is the flow of $\xi_M$.[/guided]
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[step:Differentiate the symplectic invariance identity]
Because the action of $G$ on $(M,\theta)$ is symplectic, each diffeomorphism $\Phi_t$ preserves $\theta$. Thus
\begin{align*}
\Phi_t^*\theta=\theta
\end{align*}
for every $t$ for which the flow is defined. By the defining flow formula for the Lie derivative of a differential form,
\begin{align*}
\mathcal L_{\xi_M}\theta=\frac{d}{dt}\bigg|_{t=0}\Phi_t^*\theta.
\end{align*}
Differentiating the constant family $\Phi_t^*\theta=\theta$ gives
\begin{align*}
\mathcal L_{\xi_M}\theta=0.
\end{align*}
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[step:Use Cartan's formula to translate vanishing Lie derivative into closedness]
Cartan's formula for the Lie derivative of a differential form gives
\begin{align*}
\mathcal L_{\xi_M}\theta=d(\iota_{\xi_M}\theta)+\iota_{\xi_M}(d\theta).
\end{align*}
Since $\theta$ is a symplectic form, it is closed, so
\begin{align*}
d\theta=0.
\end{align*}
Therefore
\begin{align*}
\mathcal L_{\xi_M}\theta=d(\iota_{\xi_M}\theta).
\end{align*}
The equality $\mathcal L_{\xi_M}\theta=0$ is consequently equivalent to
\begin{align*}
d(\iota_{\xi_M}\theta)=0.
\end{align*}
This is precisely the statement that the one-form $\iota_{\xi_M}\theta$ is closed.
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