[guided]The tool we need is the [Co-differential is Formal Adjoint of $d$](/theorems/2742): for every $\eta \in \Omega^{p-1}(M)$ and $\xi \in \Omega^p(M)$,
\begin{align*}
\langle\langle d\eta, \xi \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle \eta, \delta\xi \rangle\rangle_g.
\tag{A}
\end{align*}
Before applying (A) we verify its hypotheses. Theorem 2742 requires either that $M$ has empty boundary or that the forms $\eta, \xi$ have compact support; this restriction comes from the integration by parts in its proof, where boundary terms must vanish. In our setting $M$ is a closed compact manifold (compact without boundary), so the boundary condition is met automatically and we may apply (A) to **any** smooth forms on $M$ — no support restriction is needed. This is the second appearance of the compactness hypothesis we flagged in Step 1.
We now use (A) to evaluate each of the two summands $\langle\langle \alpha, d\delta\alpha \rangle\rangle_g$ and $\langle\langle \alpha, \delta d\alpha \rangle\rangle_g$ produced in the previous step.
**First summand: $\langle\langle \alpha, d\delta\alpha \rangle\rangle_g$.** The form inside is $d\delta\alpha = d(\delta\alpha)$ where $\delta\alpha \in \Omega^{p-1}(M)$, so identity (A) applies at the index $p-1 \to p$ with the choice $\eta := \delta\alpha$ and $\xi := \alpha$:
\begin{align*}
\langle\langle d(\delta\alpha), \alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle \delta\alpha, \delta\alpha \rangle\rangle_g.
\end{align*}
Using symmetry of the real $L^2$ pairing $\langle\langle u, v \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle v, u \rangle\rangle_g$ to move $d\delta\alpha$ from the left slot to the right, we find
\begin{align*}
\langle\langle \alpha, d\delta\alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle d\delta\alpha, \alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle d(\delta\alpha), \alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle \delta\alpha, \delta\alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \|\delta\alpha\|_g^2.
\end{align*}
The point: applying (A) to a $d\delta$ pair turns the $d$ acting on $\delta\alpha$ on one side into a $\delta$ acting on $\alpha$ on the other, and the two $\delta\alpha$'s collapse into the squared norm.
**Second summand: $\langle\langle \alpha, \delta d\alpha \rangle\rangle_g$.** Here the inner form is $\delta d\alpha = \delta(d\alpha)$ where $d\alpha \in \Omega^{p+1}(M)$, so we read (A) at the shifted index $p \to p+1$, with the choice $\eta := \alpha \in \Omega^p(M)$ and $\xi := d\alpha \in \Omega^{p+1}(M)$:
\begin{align*}
\langle\langle d\alpha, d\alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle \alpha, \delta(d\alpha) \rangle\rangle_g.
\end{align*}
Reading this from right to left,
\begin{align*}
\langle\langle \alpha, \delta d\alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle \alpha, \delta(d\alpha) \rangle\rangle_g = \langle\langle d\alpha, d\alpha \rangle\rangle_g = \|d\alpha\|_g^2.
\end{align*}
Here the $\delta d$ pair flips into a $d \cdot d$ pair, and the two copies of $d\alpha$ collapse into a squared norm. The two flips are mirror images: the first uses (A) with the $d$ on the left, the second with the $d$ on the right, and in both cases the result is a squared $L^2$-norm of one of the first-order quantities $d\alpha$ or $\delta\alpha$ that we want to show vanish.[/guided]