[step:Show that $D^* \nu(x) = D_* \nu(x)$ for $\mu$-almost every $x$ using rational sandwiching]
Define for rational numbers $s > t > 0$ the set
\begin{align*}
E_{s,t} := \{x \in \mathbb{R}^n : D_* \nu(x) < t < s < D^* \nu(x)\}.
\end{align*}
We claim $\mu(E_{s,t}) = 0$ for every such pair.
On $E_{s,t}$, the upper derivative exceeds $s$, so by the estimate from the previous step applied to the measure $\nu$ and the set $E_{s,t}$:
\begin{align*}
\nu(E_{s,t}) \geq \frac{s}{N} \mu(E_{s,t}).
\end{align*}
On the other hand, $D_* \nu(x) < t$ on $E_{s,t}$. Applying the symmetric version of the estimate (with the roles reversed: for each $x \in E_{s,t}$, there exist arbitrarily small $r$ with $\nu(\overline{B}(x, r)) < t \cdot \mu(\overline{B}(x, r))$, and applying Besicovitch to these balls):
\begin{align*}
\nu(E_{s,t}) \leq N \cdot t \cdot \mu(E_{s,t}).
\end{align*}
(This upper bound is obtained by covering $E_{s,t}$ with balls where $\nu(B) < t \cdot \mu(B)$ and summing with bounded overlap.)
Combining:
\begin{align*}
\frac{s}{N} \mu(E_{s,t}) \leq \nu(E_{s,t}) \leq N \cdot t \cdot \mu(E_{s,t}).
\end{align*}
Since $s > t$, this gives $\frac{s}{N} \leq N \cdot t$, i.e., $s \leq N^2 t$. But $s$ and $t$ are arbitrary rationals with $s > t > 0$. For fixed $t$, we can choose $s > N^2 t$ to obtain a contradiction unless $\mu(E_{s,t}) = 0$.
Therefore $\mu(E_{s,t}) = 0$ for all rational $s > t > 0$. The set where $D^* \nu(x) > D_* \nu(x)$ equals
\begin{align*}
\{x : D^* \nu(x) > D_* \nu(x)\} = \bigcup_{\substack{s, t \in \mathbb{Q} \\ s > t > 0}} E_{s,t},
\end{align*}
which is a countable union of $\mu$-null sets, hence $\mu$-null. Therefore $D^* \nu(x) = D_* \nu(x)$ for $\mu$-a.e. $x$.
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