[step:Show $D_\mu \nu_s(x) = +\infty$ for $\nu_s$-almost every $x$]
We use the same Borel set $S$ with $\mu(S) = 0$ and $\nu_s(\mathbb{R}^n \setminus S) = 0$. For $M > 0$, define
\begin{align*}
H_M = \{x \in S : \overline{D}_\mu \nu_s(x) \leq M\}.
\end{align*}
We show $\nu_s(H_M) = 0$.
For each $x \in H_M$, the condition $\overline{D}_\mu \nu_s(x) \leq M$ means: for every $\varepsilon > 0$ there exists $\delta > 0$ such that for all $0 < r < \delta$,
\begin{align*}
\nu_s(\overline{B}(x, r)) \leq (M + \varepsilon) \mu(\overline{B}(x, r)).
\end{align*}
Actually, since $\overline{D}_\mu \nu_s(x) \leq M$, for all sufficiently small $r$ we have $\nu_s(\overline{B}(x,r)) \leq (M + 1) \mu(\overline{B}(x,r))$.
Let $K \subset H_M$ be compact and $\delta > 0$. For each $x \in K$, choose $r_x \leq \delta$ with $\nu_s(\overline{B}(x, r_x)) \leq (M+1) \mu(\overline{B}(x, r_x))$. Apply the [Besicovitch Covering Theorem](/theorems/3021) to $K$: there exist subfamilies $\mathcal{G}_1, \ldots, \mathcal{G}_N$ covering $K$, each consisting of pairwise disjoint balls. For each $j$, summing over the disjoint balls in $\mathcal{G}_j$:
\begin{align*}
\nu_s\!\left(\bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B\right) = \sum_B \nu_s(B) \leq (M+1) \sum_B \mu(B) = (M+1) \mu\!\left(\bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B\right).
\end{align*}
Since $K \subset \bigcup_{j=1}^N \bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B$ and the overlap is at most $N(n)$:
\begin{align*}
\nu_s(K) \leq \sum_{j=1}^N \nu_s\!\left(\bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B\right) \leq (M+1) \sum_{j=1}^N \mu\!\left(\bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B\right).
\end{align*}
Let $V_\delta = \bigcup_{j=1}^N \bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B$. By bounded overlap, $\sum_{j=1}^N \mu(\bigcup_{B \in \mathcal{G}_j} B) \leq N(n) \mu(V_\delta)$. Since all balls have radius $\leq \delta$ and are centered in $K \subset S$, as $\delta \to 0$ the set $V_\delta$ shrinks toward $K \subset S$. By outer regularity, $\mu(V_\delta) \to \mu(K)$. But $K \subset S$ and $\mu(S) = 0$, so $\mu(K) = 0$. Therefore $\nu_s(K) = 0$.
By [inner regularity](/theorems/3011) of $\nu_s$: $\nu_s(H_M) = \sup\{\nu_s(K) : K \subset H_M, K \text{ compact}\} = 0$.
Since $\{x \in S : D_\mu \nu_s(x) < +\infty\} = \bigcup_{M=1}^\infty H_M$, countable subadditivity gives $\nu_s(\{x \in S : D_\mu \nu_s(x) < +\infty\}) = 0$. Since $\nu_s(\mathbb{R}^n \setminus S) = 0$, we conclude $D_\mu \nu_s(x) = +\infty$ for $\nu_s$-almost every $x$.
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