[step:Key lemma: telescoping bound on the local mean $m_k(r)$ in terms of gradient and singular averages]
Define
\begin{align*}
m_k(r) &:= (v_x)_{B(x, 2^{-k} r)} = \fint_{B(x, 2^{-k} r)} v_x \, d\mathcal{L}^n, \\
G_j(x, r) &:= \fint_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} |\nabla u(y) - \nabla u(x)| \, d\mathcal{L}^n(y), \\
H_j(x, r) &:= \frac{|D^s u|(B(x, 2^{-j} r))}{\omega_n (2^{-j} r)^n}.
\end{align*}
By the linear-mean-zero observation of Step 2, $m_k(r) = u_{B(x, 2^{-k} r)} - u(x)$.
[claim:Telescoping bound on $|m_k(r)|$]
There exists a constant $C = C(n)$ such that for every $x \in \Omega_0$, every $0 < r \le r_0$, and every $k \in \mathbb{N}_0$,
\begin{align*}
|m_k(r)| \le C \cdot r \sum_{j = k}^\infty 2^{-j} \big( G_j(x, r) + H_j(x, r) \big).
\end{align*}
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*Proof of claim.* Recall the Sobolev-Poincaré inequality on balls for $BV$ (a standard result; for $w \in BV(B(z, \rho))$,
\begin{align*}
\left( \fint_{B(z, \rho)} |w - w_{B(z, \rho)}|^{1^*} d\mathcal{L}^n \right)^{1/1^*} \le C_{\mathrm{SP}} \cdot \frac{|Dw|(B(z, \rho))}{\rho^{n-1}},
\end{align*}
where $C_{\mathrm{SP}} = C_{\mathrm{SP}}(n)$ is a dimensional constant.
Apply this to $\tilde u_x \in BV(B(x, r))$ on the ball $B(x, 2^{-j} r)$, using $|D \tilde u_x|(B(x, 2^{-j} r)) \le \int_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} |\nabla u - \nabla u(x)| \, d\mathcal{L}^n + |D^s u|(B(x, 2^{-j} r))$ and $(\tilde u_x)_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} = u_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)}$:
\begin{align*}
&\left( \fint_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \tilde u_x(y) - u_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big|^{1^*} d\mathcal{L}^n(y) \right)^{1/1^*} \\
&\quad \le C_{\mathrm{SP}} \cdot \frac{|D \tilde u_x|(B(x, 2^{-j} r))}{(2^{-j} r)^{n-1}} \\
&\quad \le C_{\mathrm{SP}} \cdot \frac{1}{(2^{-j} r)^{n-1}} \big( \omega_n (2^{-j} r)^n \cdot G_j(x, r) + \omega_n (2^{-j} r)^n \cdot H_j(x, r) \big) \\
&\quad = C_{\mathrm{SP}} \omega_n \cdot 2^{-j} r \cdot \big( G_j(x, r) + H_j(x, r) \big).
\end{align*}
For each $j \ge 0$, since $B(x, 2^{-j-1} r) \subseteq B(x, 2^{-j} r)$ with volume ratio $2^{-n}$, by Jensen's inequality applied to the conjugate-exponent direction (which gives $|\fint f| \le \fint |f| \le (\fint |f|^{1^*})^{1/1^*}$ for $1^* \ge 1$),
\begin{align*}
\big| u_{B(x, 2^{-j-1} r)} - u_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| &= \big| (\tilde u_x)_{B(x, 2^{-j-1} r)} - (\tilde u_x)_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \\
&\le \fint_{B(x, 2^{-j-1} r)} \big| \tilde u_x - (\tilde u_x)_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \, d\mathcal{L}^n \\
&\le 2^n \fint_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \tilde u_x - (\tilde u_x)_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \, d\mathcal{L}^n \\
&\le 2^n \left( \fint_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \tilde u_x - (\tilde u_x)_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big|^{1^*} d\mathcal{L}^n \right)^{1/1^*} \\
&\le 2^n C_{\mathrm{SP}} \omega_n \cdot 2^{-j} r \cdot \big( G_j(x, r) + H_j(x, r) \big).
\end{align*}
The first equality used $(\tilde u_x)_{B(x, \rho)} = u_{B(x, \rho)}$ for both balls.
Now apply condition (i) at the Lebesgue point $x$ of $u$: $u_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \to u(x)$ as $j \to \infty$. Hence the telescoping series
\begin{align*}
u(x) - u_{B(x, 2^{-k} r)} = \sum_{j = k}^\infty \big( u_{B(x, 2^{-j-1} r)} - u_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big)
\end{align*}
converges absolutely (granted the bound just derived; we verify summability below), and the triangle inequality gives
\begin{align*}
|m_k(r)| = \big| u_{B(x, 2^{-k} r)} - u(x) \big| \le \sum_{j = k}^\infty \big| u_{B(x, 2^{-j-1} r)} - u_{B(x, 2^{-j} r)} \big| \le 2^n C_{\mathrm{SP}} \omega_n \cdot r \sum_{j = k}^\infty 2^{-j} \big( G_j(x, r) + H_j(x, r) \big).
\end{align*}
Absolute convergence of the right side follows from $G_j(x, r) \le M_*(x)$ and $H_j(x, r) \le M^*(|D^s u|)(x)$ (both finite by (iv)), together with $\sum_j 2^{-j} < \infty$. Setting $C := 2^n C_{\mathrm{SP}} \omega_n$ proves the claim. $\square$
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