[guided]We want to show $\|v + w\|^2 = \|v\|^2 + \|w\|^2$. The norm $\|x\|$ on an inner product space is defined by $\|x\|^2 = \langle x, x \rangle$, so the natural approach is to expand the left-hand side using the inner product.
By definition, $\|v + w\|^2 = \langle v + w, v + w \rangle$. The inner product on a real vector space is bilinear (linear in each argument) and symmetric ($\langle x, y \rangle = \langle y, x \rangle$). Expanding:
\begin{align*}
\|v + w\|^2 &= \langle v + w, v + w \rangle \\
&= \langle v, v \rangle + \langle v, w \rangle + \langle w, v \rangle + \langle w, w \rangle.
\end{align*}
Now we use the hypothesis $v \perp w$, which means $\langle v, w \rangle = 0$. Since the inner product is symmetric, $\langle w, v \rangle = \langle v, w \rangle = 0$ as well. The two cross terms vanish, leaving:
\begin{align*}
\|v + w\|^2 &= \langle v, v \rangle + \langle w, w \rangle = \|v\|^2 + \|w\|^2.
\end{align*}
This completes the two-vector case. The key point is that orthogonality eliminates the cross terms $\langle v, w \rangle$ and $\langle w, v \rangle$, which are the only terms preventing the norm from being additive.[/guided]