[guided]We want to prove that an alternating form flips sign under a transposition of two of its arguments. The clever device is to use the vanishing condition not on the original tuple, but on a deformed tuple where we have **forced** a repetition: replace both the $i$-th and $j$-th entries by $v_i + v_j$. Why this particular replacement? Because expanding $\alpha$ on such a tuple by multilinearity produces exactly four terms — two "diagonal" terms with a repeated entry (which vanish by alternation) and two "cross" terms that are precisely the configuration we want to compare.
Explicitly, the tuple in which positions $i$ and $j$ both equal $v_i + v_j$ has a repeated entry, so by the alternating hypothesis,
\begin{align*}
\alpha(\dots, \underbrace{v_i + v_j}_{i}, \dots, \underbrace{v_i + v_j}_{j}, \dots) = 0.
\end{align*}
By multilinearity (applied first in the $i$-th slot, then in the $j$-th slot, with all other arguments held fixed),
\begin{align*}
0 &= \alpha(\dots, v_i, \dots, v_i + v_j, \dots) + \alpha(\dots, v_j, \dots, v_i + v_j, \dots) \\
&= \alpha(\dots, v_i, \dots, v_i, \dots) + \alpha(\dots, v_i, \dots, v_j, \dots) \\
&\quad + \alpha(\dots, v_j, \dots, v_i, \dots) + \alpha(\dots, v_j, \dots, v_j, \dots).
\end{align*}
The first and fourth terms each have a repeated argument and hence vanish by alternation. We are left with
\begin{align*}
\alpha(\dots, v_i, \dots, v_j, \dots) + \alpha(\dots, v_j, \dots, v_i, \dots) = 0,
\end{align*}
which rearranges to the transposition sign-flip
\begin{align*}
\alpha(\dots, v_j, \dots, v_i, \dots) = -\alpha(\dots, v_i, \dots, v_j, \dots).
\end{align*}
This is a structural device worth remembering: to extract anti-symmetry from a vanishing condition on coincident arguments, plug in the **sum** at the coincident positions and let multilinearity do the bookkeeping.[/guided]