[guided]We prove the operator identities at one fixed point $x_0 \in X$. This is enough because both sides of each Kähler identity are differential operators; if two such operators agree on every form at every point, then they are the same operator.
The Kähler condition allows us to choose holomorphic coordinates $(z_1,\dots,z_n)$ on a neighbourhood $U \subset X$ of $x_0$ which are normal for the Kähler metric at $x_0$. This means $g_{j\bar{k}}(x_0)=\delta_{jk}$ and $\partial_{z_\ell}g_{j\bar{k}}(x_0)=\partial_{\bar{z}_\ell}g_{j\bar{k}}(x_0)=0$ for all indices. Let $\nabla$ denote the Chern connection on complex-valued forms; because the metric is Kähler, this is the complexified Levi-Civita connection and it preserves $(p,q)$-type. Define
\begin{align*}
\theta_j := dz_j|_{x_0} \in T_{x_0}^{1,0*}X,
\qquad
\bar{\theta}_j := d\bar{z}_j|_{x_0} \in T_{x_0}^{0,1*}X.
\end{align*}
Then $(\theta_1,\dots,\theta_n)$ is unitary at the single point $x_0$, the connection coefficients vanish at $x_0$, and
\begin{align*}
\omega_{x_0}=i\sum_{j=1}^n \theta_j \wedge \bar{\theta}_j.
\end{align*}
The vanishing of the connection coefficients means that, at $x_0$, differentiating the components of a form produces the whole first-order part of $\partial$ and $\bar{\partial}$; no extra connection-coefficient terms appear.
Define the wedge operators
\begin{align*}
E_j: \Lambda^\bullet T_{x_0}^*X \otimes \mathbb{C} &\to \Lambda^{\bullet+1} T_{x_0}^*X \otimes \mathbb{C},&
\alpha &\mapsto \theta_j \wedge \alpha,\\
\bar{E}_j: \Lambda^\bullet T_{x_0}^*X \otimes \mathbb{C} &\to \Lambda^{\bullet+1} T_{x_0}^*X \otimes \mathbb{C},&
\alpha &\mapsto \bar{\theta}_j \wedge \alpha.
\end{align*}
Let $I_j:=E_j^*$ and $\bar{I}_j:=\bar{E}_j^*$ be their Hermitian adjoints. These are contraction operators. Since $L$ means wedge multiplication by $\omega$, the normal expression for $\omega$ gives
\begin{align*}
L = i\sum_{j=1}^n E_j\bar{E}_j.
\end{align*}
Taking pointwise adjoints gives
\begin{align*}
\Lambda = L^* = -i\sum_{j=1}^n \bar{I}_j I_j,
\end{align*}
because $(E_j\bar{E}_j)^*=\bar{I}_j I_j$ and the complex conjugate of $i$ is $-i$.
Finally, if $Z_j$ is the unitary $(1,0)$ vector field dual to $\theta_j$, then at $x_0$ the Dolbeault operators and their formal adjoints have the local expressions
\begin{align*}
\partial &= \sum_{j=1}^n E_j\nabla_{Z_j},
&
\bar{\partial} &= \sum_{j=1}^n \bar{E}_j\nabla_{\bar{Z}_j},\\
\partial^* &= -\sum_{j=1}^n I_j\nabla_{\bar{Z}_j},
&
\bar{\partial}^* &= -\sum_{j=1}^n \bar{I}_j\nabla_{Z_j}.
\end{align*}
The minus signs in the adjoint formulas come from [integration by parts](/theorems/2098) in a normal frame; at the chosen point no lower-order connection term remains. Thus the proof has been reduced to computing the commutators of $\Lambda$ with the wedge operators $E_j$ and $\bar{E}_j$.[/guided]