[guided]Fix a finite set $F \subset I$. Define the finite coordinate projection map
\begin{align*}
P_F: H &\to H \\
x &\mapsto \sum_{i \in F} (x,e_i)_H e_i.
\end{align*}
This is the natural finite projection onto the span of the basis vectors indexed by $F$. We verify the projection property directly. For $j \in F$,
\begin{align*}
(x - P_F x,e_j)_H
&= (x,e_j)_H - \left(\sum_{i \in F} (x,e_i)_H e_i,e_j\right)_H \\
&= (x,e_j)_H - \sum_{i \in F} (x,e_i)_H (e_i,e_j)_H.
\end{align*}
Since the family $(e_i)_{i \in I}$ is orthonormal, $(e_i,e_j)_H = 0$ when $i \neq j$ and $(e_j,e_j)_H = 1$. Hence the sum collapses to the single term $(x,e_j)_H$, so
\begin{align*}
(x - P_F x,e_j)_H = 0.
\end{align*}
Thus $x - P_F x$ is orthogonal to every vector in $\operatorname{span}\{e_i : i \in F\}$, while $P_F x$ belongs to that span. Therefore $x - P_F x$ and $P_F x$ are orthogonal.
The Pythagorean identity in a Hilbert space gives
\begin{align*}
\|x\|_H^2
&= \|P_F x\|_H^2 + \|x - P_F x\|_H^2.
\end{align*}
We now compute the norm of $P_F x$ using orthonormality:
\begin{align*}
\|P_F x\|_H^2
&= \left(\sum_{i \in F} (x,e_i)_H e_i,\sum_{j \in F} (x,e_j)_H e_j\right)_H \\
&= \sum_{i,j \in F} (x,e_i)_H \overline{(x,e_j)_H} (e_i,e_j)_H \\
&= \sum_{i \in F} |(x,e_i)_H|^2.
\end{align*}
Combining the two identities yields
\begin{align*}
\sum_{i \in F} |(x,e_i)_H|^2 \leq \|x\|_H^2.
\end{align*}
This is Bessel's finite estimate, and it is the key bound that makes the coordinate map land in $\ell^2(I)$.[/guided]