[guided]We need three retained points that are not collinear. The only subtlety is that the intersection point of two chosen projective lines must not accidentally coincide with one of the other two retained points.
Since the projective plane has order $n \geq 2$, the deleted line $m$ contains $n+1 \geq 3$ points. Choose two distinct points $q_1,q_2 \in P$ on $m$. Through each point of a projective plane of order $n$ there are $n+1 \geq 3$ lines, so we may choose a line $\ell_1 \neq m$ through $q_1$ and a line $\ell_2 \neq m$ through $q_2$. These two lines are distinct: if they were equal, then their common line would meet $m$ in both $q_1$ and $q_2$, contradicting the uniqueness of the intersection of two projective lines.
Let $c$ be the unique point of intersection of $\ell_1$ and $\ell_2$. This point is retained. Indeed, if $c$ lay on $m$, then $c$ would belong to both $\ell_1 \cap m$ and $\ell_2 \cap m$. But $\ell_1 \cap m = \{q_1\}$ and $\ell_2 \cap m = \{q_2\}$, so this would force $q_1=q_2$, contrary to our choice. Hence $c \in P_0$.
Now choose the other two retained points away from $c$. The line $\ell_1$ has $n+1 \geq 3$ points. On $\ell_1$ we exclude the point $q_1$ on $m$ and the point $c$, leaving at least one point; choose such a point and call it $a$. Similarly, on $\ell_2$ we exclude $q_2$ and $c$, and choose a remaining point $b$. Then $a,b,c$ are all in $P_0$, and they are pairwise distinct. The equality $a=b$ would put that common point on both $\ell_1$ and $\ell_2$, so it would have to be their unique intersection point $c$, contrary to the choice of $a$ and $b$.
Finally, suppose a retained line contained $a,b,c$. Viewed as a projective line, it contains the distinct points $a$ and $c$, so by projective uniqueness it must be $\ell_1$. It also contains the distinct points $b$ and $c$, so it must be $\ell_2$. This would imply $\ell_1=\ell_2$, impossible because the two lines meet $m$ at the distinct points $q_1$ and $q_2$. Therefore $a,b,c$ are noncollinear retained points.[/guided]