[guided]Fix a support $S$ with $|S|=m$ and assume that the event $\mathcal{E}$ holds. The net only gives information at points $u\in\mathcal{N}_S$, so we introduce an operator whose quadratic form is exactly the error we want to control. Let $P_S:\mathbb{R}^d\to E_S$ be the coordinate projection defined by $(P_S x)_j=x_j$ for $j\in S$ and $(P_S x)_j=0$ for $j\notin S$. Define the self-adjoint linear map $A_S:E_S\to E_S$ by
\begin{align*}
A_Sv=\frac{P_S(X^\top Xv)}{n}-v.
\end{align*}
For $v\in E_S$, the identity $(P_S z,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}=(z,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}$ gives
\begin{align*}
(A_Sv,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}=\frac{|Xv|^2}{n}-|v|^2.
\end{align*}
Thus bounding the quadratic form of $A_S$ on the unit sphere is exactly the same as bounding $|Xv|^2/n-1$ for $v\in\mathbb{S}_S$.
Define
\begin{align*}
M_S:=\sup_{v\in\mathbb{S}_S}|(A_Sv,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|.
\end{align*}
For every $u\in\mathcal{N}_S$, the event $\mathcal{E}$ gives
\begin{align*}
|(A_Su,u)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|=\left|\frac{|Xu|^2}{n}-1\right|\le \frac{1}{4}.
\end{align*}
The obstacle is that after replacing $v$ by a nearby net point $u$, mixed terms involving $v-u$ appear. We control them by $M_S$ itself. Since $A_S:E_S\to E_S$ is self-adjoint on the finite-dimensional Euclidean space $E_S$, the [spectral theorem](/page/Spectral%20Theorem) gives an orthonormal basis $e_1,\dots,e_m$ of $E_S$ and real eigenvalues $\lambda_1,\dots,\lambda_m$ such that $A_Se_k=\lambda_k e_k$. For a unit vector $w=\sum_{k=1}^m\alpha_k e_k$, we have
\begin{align*}
(A_Sw,w)_{\mathbb{R}^d}=\sum_{k=1}^m\lambda_k\alpha_k^2,
\end{align*}
so
\begin{align*}
M_S=\max_{1\le k\le m}|\lambda_k|.
\end{align*}
Therefore, for all $x,y\in E_S$, the [Cauchy-Schwarz inequality](/page/Cauchy-Schwarz%20Inequality) applied in this orthonormal eigenbasis gives
\begin{align*}
|(A_Sx,y)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|
=\left|\sum_{k=1}^m\lambda_k x_k y_k\right|
\le M_S\left(\sum_{k=1}^m x_k^2\right)^{1/2}\left(\sum_{k=1}^m y_k^2\right)^{1/2}
=M_S|x|\,|y|,
\end{align*}
where $x_k=(x,e_k)_{\mathbb{R}^d}$ and $y_k=(y,e_k)_{\mathbb{R}^d}$.
Now choose $v\in\mathbb{S}_S$ and choose $u\in\mathcal{N}_S$ with $|v-u|\le 1/4$. Expanding $v=u+(v-u)$ in the quadratic form and using self-adjointness gives
\begin{align*}
|(A_Sv,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|\le |(A_Su,u)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|+ |(A_S(v-u),v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|+ |(A_Su,v-u)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|.
\end{align*}
The event $\mathcal{E}$ controls the first term, and the mixed-term estimate controls the remaining two terms, so
\begin{align*}
|(A_Sv,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|\le \frac{1}{4}+M_S|v-u|\,|v|+M_S|u|\,|v-u|.
\end{align*}
Since $|u|=|v|=1$ and $|v-u|\le 1/4$, this gives
\begin{align*}
|(A_Sv,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}|\le \frac{1}{4}+\frac{1}{2}M_S.
\end{align*}
Taking the supremum over $v\in\mathbb{S}_S$ gives
\begin{align*}
M_S\le \frac{1}{4}+\frac{1}{2}M_S,
\end{align*}
and hence $M_S\le 1/2$. Since $(A_Sv,v)_{\mathbb{R}^d}=|Xv|^2/n-1$ for $v\in\mathbb{S}_S$, we conclude that every $v\in\mathbb{S}_S$ satisfies
\begin{align*}
\frac{1}{2}\le \frac{|Xv|^2}{n}\le \frac{3}{2}.
\end{align*}[/guided]