[guided]The goal is to isolate the part of $f(x-hu)-f(x)$ that the kernel moments are designed to kill. Let $\mathbb N_0:=\{0,1,2,\dots\}$ denote the set of non-negative integers. For each multi-index $\alpha=(\alpha_1,\dots,\alpha_d)\in\mathbb N_0^d$, define $\alpha!:=\alpha_1!\cdots\alpha_d!$ and $u^\alpha:=u_1^{\alpha_1}\cdots u_d^{\alpha_d}$ for $u=(u_1,\dots,u_d)\in\mathbb R^d$. For a function $\varphi:U\to\mathbb R$ with continuous partial derivatives through order $|\alpha|$, define
\begin{align*}
D^\alpha \varphi:=\partial_{x_1}^{\alpha_1}\cdots\partial_{x_d}^{\alpha_d}\varphi.
\end{align*}
Let $\mathcal L^1$ denote one-dimensional Lebesgue measure.
Because $u$ lies in $S=\operatorname{supp}K$ and $0<h<h_0$, the point $x-hu$ lies in $A_\rho\subset U$. Thus the whole line segment $\{x-thu:0\le t\le1\}$ is contained in $A_\rho\subset U$, so all derivatives that appear are evaluated in $U$.
For $x\in A$, $u\in S$, and $0<h<h_0$, define the one-dimensional function $g_{x,u,h}:[0,1]\to\mathbb R$ by $g_{x,u,h}(t)=f(x-thu)$. Since $f$ has continuous partial derivatives up to order $m$ on $U$ and the segment lies in $U$, the chain rule gives $g_{x,u,h}\in C^m([0,1])$. For each $k\in\{1,\dots,m\}$, repeated application of the chain rule gives
\begin{align*}
g_{x,u,h}^{(k)}(0)=\sum_{|\alpha|=k}\frac{k!}{\alpha!}(-h)^k u^\alpha D^\alpha f(x).
\end{align*}
We apply the Taylor theorem with integral remainder through degree $m-1$ to $g_{x,u,h}$ at $0$; the required regularity hypothesis is exactly $g_{x,u,h}\in C^m([0,1])$, verified above. This gives
\begin{align*}
f(x-hu)-f(x)=\sum_{1\le|\alpha|<m}\frac{(-h)^{|\alpha|}}{\alpha!}u^\alpha D^\alpha f(x)+R_m(x,u,h).
\end{align*}
The integral remainder is
\begin{align*}
R_m(x,u,h)=\sum_{|\alpha|=m}\frac{(-h)^m u^\alpha}{\alpha!}\int_0^1 m(1-t)^{m-1}D^\alpha f(x-thu)\,d\mathcal L^1(t).
\end{align*}
Taking absolute values and using $\int_0^1 m(1-t)^{m-1}\,d\mathcal L^1(t)=1$ gives
\begin{align*}
|R_m(x,u,h)|\le h^m |u|^m\sum_{|\alpha|=m}\frac{1}{\alpha!}\sup_{y\in A_\rho}|D^\alpha f(y)|.
\end{align*}
The important point is that this bound is uniform in $x\in A$, because the same neighbourhood $A_\rho$ works for all $x\in A$ and all $u\in S$.
Define
\begin{align*}
M_m:=
\sum_{|\alpha|=m}\frac{1}{\alpha!}
\sup_{y\in A_\rho}|D^\alpha f(y)|.
\end{align*}
Since the order-$m$ derivatives are bounded on $U$, this constant is finite. Substituting the Taylor expansion into the bias formula gives the sum of two contributions. The polynomial contribution is
\begin{align*}
\sum_{1\le|\alpha|<m}\frac{(-h)^{|\alpha|}}{\alpha!}D^\alpha f(x)\int_{\mathbb R^d}u^\alpha K(u)\,d\mathcal L^d(u).
\end{align*}
The remainder contribution is
\begin{align*}
\int_{\mathbb R^d}K(u)R_m(x,u,h)\,d\mathcal L^d(u).
\end{align*}
Now the reason for the order-$m$ kernel assumption appears: for every multi-index $\alpha$ with $1\le|\alpha|<m$,
\begin{align*}
\int_{\mathbb R^d}u^\alpha K(u)\,d\mathcal L^d(u)=0.
\end{align*}
Therefore every Taylor polynomial term of degree $1$ through $m-1$ cancels after integration against $K$. Only the remainder remains:
\begin{align*}
\mathbb E[\hat f_{n,h}(x)]-f(x)
=
\int_{\mathbb R^d}K(u)R_m(x,u,h)\,d\mathcal L^d(u).
\end{align*}
Taking absolute values and using the triangle inequality gives
\begin{align*}
\left|\mathbb E[\hat f_{n,h}(x)]-f(x)\right|\le \int_{\mathbb R^d}|K(u)|\,|R_m(x,u,h)|\,d\mathcal L^d(u).
\end{align*}
Using the remainder estimate gives
\begin{align*}
\left|\mathbb E[\hat f_{n,h}(x)]-f(x)\right|\le h^m M_m\int_{\mathbb R^d}|u|^m|K(u)|\,d\mathcal L^d(u).
\end{align*}
Finally define
\begin{align*}
C_{\mathrm b}:=
M_m\int_{\mathbb R^d}|u|^m|K(u)|\,d\mathcal L^d(u).
\end{align*}
The assumed finite absolute moment of order $m$ makes $C_{\mathrm b}$ finite. Hence
\begin{align*}
\left|\mathbb E[\hat f_{n,h}(x)]-f(x)\right|\le C_{\mathrm b}h^m,
\end{align*}
uniformly for $x\in A$ and $0<h<h_0$.[/guided]