[guided]We derive the ordinary Pluecker relation in a form whose signs will not matter after applying the valuation. Fix an $(r-1)$-element subset $S\subset[n]$ and an $(r+1)$-element subset $T\subset[n]$, and write
\begin{align*}
T=\{t_1<\cdots<t_{r+1}\}.
\end{align*}
For each $k\in\{1,\dots,r+1\}$, define
\begin{align*}
C_k:=\Delta(T\setminus\{t_k\})\in K.
\end{align*}
We first prove the column relation
\begin{align*}
\sum_{k=1}^{r+1}(-1)^{k-1}C_k a_{t_k}=0
\end{align*}
in $E=K^r$. To verify a vector identity in $K^r$, it is enough to verify each coordinate. Fix $q\in\{1,\dots,r\}$. The $q$-th coordinate of the left-hand side is
\begin{align*}
\sum_{k=1}^{r+1}(-1)^{k-1}C_k(a_{t_k})_q.
\end{align*}
Consider the $(r+1)\times(r+1)$ matrix whose first row is the $q$-th row of $(a_{t_1},\dots,a_{t_{r+1}})$ and whose remaining $r$ rows are the rows of $(a_{t_1},\dots,a_{t_{r+1}})$ in their original order. Its determinant is zero because the first row equals the row indexed by $q+1$. Expanding this determinant along the first row by [Laplace expansion](/page/Determinant), the cofactor sign in column $k$ is $(-1)^{1+k}=(-1)^{k-1}$, and the corresponding minor is exactly $\Delta(T\setminus\{t_k\})=C_k$ with the chosen column order. Therefore the displayed coordinate sum is zero. Since this holds for all $q$, the column relation follows.
Now write
\begin{align*}
S=\{s_1<\cdots<s_{r-1}\}.
\end{align*}
Let $\omega:=e_1\wedge\cdots\wedge e_r\in\bigwedge^rE$, where $e_1,\dots,e_r$ is the standard basis of $E$. Wedge the column relation on the left with $a_{s_1}\wedge\cdots\wedge a_{s_{r-1}}$. If $t_k\in S$, then the exterior product contains the repeated vector $a_{t_k}$, hence is zero by alternation of the exterior product. If $t_k\in T\setminus S$, then $S\cup\{t_k\}$ is an $r$-element subset of $[n]$, and reordering the wedge product into increasing order introduces a sign $\varepsilon_k\in\{1,-1\}$ satisfying
\begin{align*}
a_{s_1}\wedge\cdots\wedge a_{s_{r-1}}\wedge a_{t_k}=\varepsilon_k\Delta(S\cup\{t_k\})\omega.
\end{align*}
Taking the coefficient of $\omega$ in the wedged identity gives
\begin{align*}
\sum_{t\in T\setminus S}\sigma_t\Delta(S\cup\{t\})\Delta(T\setminus\{t\})=0,
\end{align*}
where each $\sigma_t\in\{1,-1\}$ is the product of the Laplace sign and the reordering sign. This is the ordinary Pluecker relation needed for the valuation argument.[/guided]