[step:Reduce self-adjoint restrictions to maximal isotropic boundary subspaces]Let $\mathcal B:=\mathbb C^2\oplus\mathbb C^2$. Define the skew-Hermitian boundary form
\begin{align*}
\omega:\mathcal B\times\mathcal B\to\mathbb C,\qquad ((x,y),(x',y'))\mapsto (x,y')_{\mathbb C^2}-(y,x')_{\mathbb C^2}.
\end{align*}
Define the trace map
\begin{align*}
\Gamma:H^2(0,L)\to\mathcal B,\qquad u\mapsto(\Gamma_1u,\Gamma_2u).
\end{align*}
The map $\Gamma$ is surjective: for any $a_0,a_L,b_0,b_L\in\mathbb C$, the Hermite interpolation polynomial $p\in C^\infty([0,L])$ satisfying $p(0)=a_0$, $p(L)=a_L$, $p'(0)=-b_0$, and $p'(L)=b_L$ belongs to $H^2(0,L)$ and has $\Gamma p=((a_0,a_L),(b_0,b_L))$.
If $T$ is a closed extension of $S_0$ with $T\subset S_{\max}$, then $T$ contains the closure of $S_0$. The closure has domain
\begin{align*}
H^2_0(0,L)=\{u\in H^2(0,L):u(0)=u(L)=u'(0)=u'(L)=0\}=\ker\Gamma.
\end{align*}
Here the equality with $\ker\Gamma$ follows from the definitions of $\Gamma_1$ and $\Gamma_2$, and the closure statement uses the standard endpoint trace characterization of $H^2_0(0,L)$: functions in $C_c^\infty(0,L)$ are dense in the $H^2(0,L)$ norm exactly in the subspace with vanishing endpoint values and vanishing endpoint first derivatives. Set
\begin{align*}
M_T:=\Gamma(\mathcal D(T))\subset\mathcal B.
\end{align*}
Since $\ker\Gamma\subset\mathcal D(T)$, the domain is exactly the pullback of its boundary data:
\begin{align*}
\mathcal D(T)=\Gamma^{-1}(M_T).
\end{align*}
Indeed, if $u\in\Gamma^{-1}(M_T)$, choose $v\in\mathcal D(T)$ with $\Gamma v=\Gamma u$; then $u-v\in\ker\Gamma\subset\mathcal D(T)$, so $u\in\mathcal D(T)$.
By Green's identity, $T$ is symmetric exactly when $\omega$ vanishes on $M_T\times M_T$. Its adjoint is the restriction of $S_{\max}$ whose boundary values lie in
\begin{align*}
M_T^{\perp_\omega}:=\{z\in\mathcal B:\omega(z,m)=0\text{ for every }m\in M_T\}.
\end{align*}
Surjectivity of $\Gamma$ gives this equality of domains, not merely one inclusion. Therefore $T=T^*$ exactly when $M_T=M_T^{\perp_\omega}$, which is equivalent to $M_T$ being maximal among subspaces of $\mathcal B$ on which $\omega$ vanishes.
[claim:Maximal isotropic boundary subspaces have dimension two]
If $M\subset\mathcal B$ satisfies $M=M^{\perp_\omega}$, then $\dim_{\mathbb C}M=2$.
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[proof]
The form $\omega$ is nondegenerate: if $z=(x,y)\in\mathcal B$ and $\omega(z,(x',y'))=0$ for every $(x',y')\in\mathcal B$, then testing first against $(0,y')$ gives $(x,y')_{\mathbb C^2}=0$ for every $y'\in\mathbb C^2$, so $x=0$; testing against $(x',0)$ gives $-(y,x')_{\mathbb C^2}=0$ for every $x'\in\mathbb C^2$, so $y=0$. Thus the [linear map](/page/Linear%20Map) $\mathcal B\to\mathcal B^*$ induced by $\omega$ is an isomorphism. For any subspace $M\subset\mathcal B$, rank-nullity applied to the restriction map $\mathcal B\to M^*$, $z\mapsto \omega(z,\cdot)|_M$, gives
\begin{align*}
\dim_{\mathbb C}M^{\perp_\omega}=4-\dim_{\mathbb C}M.
\end{align*}
If $M=M^{\perp_\omega}$, then $2\dim_{\mathbb C}M=4$, hence $\dim_{\mathbb C}M=2$.
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