[guided]The accepted proposal flow from $x$ to $y$ is the exact target weight at $x$, multiplied by the proposal density from $x$ to $y$, multiplied by both acceptance probabilities. We therefore define
\begin{align*}
h(x,y):=\gamma(x)q(x,y)\alpha_1(x,y)\alpha_2(x,y).
\end{align*}
The goal is to prove that this quantity is unchanged when $x$ and $y$ are interchanged.
First consider the case $q(x,y)q(y,x)=0$. The first-stage acceptance probability was defined with this case separated precisely to avoid division by zero. Since the product $q(x,y)q(y,x)$ is symmetric in $x$ and $y$, the same zero-product condition holds after swapping the two variables. Hence
\begin{align*}
\alpha_1(x,y)=0
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
\alpha_1(y,x)=0.
\end{align*}
Therefore
\begin{align*}
h(x,y)=0=h(y,x).
\end{align*}
Now assume $q(x,y)q(y,x)>0$. This ensures every quotient below is well-defined and positive, since $\gamma$ and $\widetilde\gamma$ take values in $(0,\infty)$. Let
\begin{align*}
S:=\{(u,v)\in E\times E:q(u,v)q(v,u)>0\}.
\end{align*}
Define the auxiliary maps $A:S\to(0,\infty)$ and $B:S\to(0,\infty)$ by
\begin{align*}
A(u,v):=\frac{\widetilde\gamma(v)q(v,u)}{\widetilde\gamma(u)q(u,v)}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
B(u,v):=\frac{\gamma(v)\widetilde\gamma(u)}{\gamma(u)\widetilde\gamma(v)}.
\end{align*}
The first ratio $A(x,y)$ is the surrogate Metropolis-Hastings ratio, while $B(x,y)$ is the correction from the surrogate density back to the exact density. Their product cancels the surrogate terms:
\begin{align*}
A(x,y)B(x,y)=\frac{\widetilde\gamma(y)q(y,x)}{\widetilde\gamma(x)q(x,y)}\frac{\gamma(y)\widetilde\gamma(x)}{\gamma(x)\widetilde\gamma(y)}=\frac{\gamma(y)q(y,x)}{\gamma(x)q(x,y)}.
\end{align*}
After swapping $x$ and $y$, the two ratios invert:
\begin{align*}
A(y,x)=A(x,y)^{-1}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
B(y,x)=B(x,y)^{-1}.
\end{align*}
The elementary minimum identity we need is
\begin{align*}
\min\{1,a\}=a\min\{1,a^{-1}\}
\end{align*}
for every $a>0$. If $0<a\leq 1$, both sides equal $a$. If $a\geq 1$, both sides equal $1$. Applying this identity to $A(x,y)$ gives
\begin{align*}
\alpha_1(x,y)=A(x,y)\alpha_1(y,x),
\end{align*}
and applying it to $B(x,y)$ gives
\begin{align*}
\alpha_2(x,y)=B(x,y)\alpha_2(y,x).
\end{align*}
Multiplying these two equalities,
\begin{align*}
\alpha_1(x,y)\alpha_2(x,y)=A(x,y)B(x,y)\alpha_1(y,x)\alpha_2(y,x).
\end{align*}
Finally multiply by $\gamma(x)q(x,y)$ and substitute the product identity for $A(x,y)B(x,y)$:
\begin{align*}
\gamma(x)q(x,y)\alpha_1(x,y)\alpha_2(x,y)=\gamma(x)q(x,y)\frac{\gamma(y)q(y,x)}{\gamma(x)q(x,y)}\alpha_1(y,x)\alpha_2(y,x).
\end{align*}
Cancelling the positive factor $\gamma(x)q(x,y)$ gives
\begin{align*}
\gamma(x)q(x,y)\alpha_1(x,y)\alpha_2(x,y)=\gamma(y)q(y,x)\alpha_1(y,x)\alpha_2(y,x).
\end{align*}
This is exactly the desired symmetry $h(x,y)=h(y,x)$.[/guided]