[step:Choose symbol seminorms and cutoff scales that make the tails summable]Let $\mathbb{N}_0 := \mathbb{N} \cup \{0\}$. For multi-indices $\alpha,\beta \in \mathbb{N}_0^n$, define the symbol seminorm
\begin{align*}
q_{\alpha,\beta}(b) := \sup_{(x,\xi,h) \in T^*\mathbb{R}^n \times (0,h_0]} \frac{|\partial_x^\alpha \partial_\xi^\beta b(x,\xi;h)|}{m(x,\xi)}
\end{align*}
for every smooth family
\begin{align*}
b: T^*\mathbb{R}^n \times (0,h_0] \to \mathbb{C}.
\end{align*}
Choose an enumeration $(q_k)_{k \ge 1}$ of the seminorms $q_{\alpha,\beta}$, with repetitions allowed if needed. Thus $b \in S(m)$ exactly when $q_k(b) < \infty$ for every $k \ge 1$.
Choose a cutoff
\begin{align*}
\chi: \mathbb{R} \to \mathbb{R}
\end{align*}
with $\chi \in C_c^\infty(\mathbb{R})$, $\chi(t)=1$ for $|t| \le 1$, and $\chi(t)=0$ for $|t| \ge 2$.
We choose a sequence $(\varepsilon_j)_{j \ge 0}$ in $(0,\infty)$ such that $\varepsilon_j \to \infty$ and, for every $j \ge 1$, every $0 \le N < j$, and every $1 \le k \le j$,
\begin{align*}
q_k\bigl(h^{-N} h^j \chi(\varepsilon_j h)a_j\bigr) \le 2^{-j}.
\end{align*}
This is possible because, on the support of $h \mapsto \chi(\varepsilon_j h)$, one has $0 < h \le 2/\varepsilon_j$. Since $a_j$ is $h$-independent and $\chi(\varepsilon_j h)$ has no $x$- or $\xi$-derivatives, for $0 \le N < j$,
\begin{align*}
q_k\bigl(h^{-N} h^j \chi(\varepsilon_j h)a_j\bigr)
\le \|\chi\|_\infty q_k(a_j)\left(\frac{2}{\varepsilon_j}\right)^{j-N}.
\end{align*}
For fixed $j$, the indices $N<j$ and $k \le j$ form a finite set, so choosing $\varepsilon_j$ sufficiently large gives all the required inequalities. Increasing $\varepsilon_j$ further if necessary, we may also impose $\varepsilon_j \ge j$, hence $\varepsilon_j \to \infty$.[/step]