[guided]The product of the two Dirichlet kernels does not collapse to a single geometric sum independent of $\xi$; it must be estimated as a kernel integral. The useful observation is localization: $D_n(\xi-\omega_{j,n})$ can be large only when $\xi$ is close to $\omega_{j,n}$ modulo $2\pi$, and $D_n(\xi-\omega_{k,n})$ can be large only when $\xi$ is close to $\omega_{k,n}$ modulo $2\pi$.
Because $\omega_j\ne\omega_k$, choose $\rho_{jk}>0$ so that the limiting arcs around $\omega_j$ and $\omega_k$ are disjoint. Since $\omega_{j,n}\to\omega_j$ and $\omega_{k,n}\to\omega_k$, the arcs centered at $\omega_{j,n}$ and $\omega_{k,n}$ remain disjoint for all sufficiently large $n$. On the arc near $\omega_{j,n}$, the distance from $\xi-\omega_{k,n}$ to $2\pi\mathbb{Z}$ is bounded below, so the elementary bound for the [Dirichlet kernel](/page/Dirichlet%20Kernel) gives $|D_n(\xi-\omega_{k,n})|\le B_{\rho_{jk}}$. Since $f$ is continuous at $\omega_j$, it is bounded on this small arc; call the bound $M_j$. Therefore this part of the covariance integral is bounded in absolute value by
\begin{align*}
\frac{M_jB_{\rho_{jk}}}{2\pi n}\int_{-\pi}^{\pi}|D_n(\xi-\omega_{j,n})|\,d\mathcal{L}^1(\xi).
\end{align*}
By [translation invariance of Lebesgue measure](/theorems/4911) on the circle and the standard $L^1$ bound for the Dirichlet kernel, this is at most a constant multiple of $\log(n+1)/n$, which tends to $0$.
The arc near $\omega_{k,n}$ is handled in the same way, with the roles of $j$ and $k$ interchanged. On the complement of the two arcs, both distances from $\xi-\omega_{j,n}$ and $\xi-\omega_{k,n}$ to $2\pi\mathbb{Z}$ are bounded below, so both Dirichlet kernels are uniformly bounded. Hence that contribution is bounded by
\begin{align*}
\frac{B_{\rho_{jk}}^2}{2\pi n}\int_{-\pi}^{\pi}|f(\xi)|\,d\mathcal{L}^1(\xi),
\end{align*}
which tends to $0$ because $f|_{[-\pi,\pi]}\in L^1([-\pi,\pi])$. Combining the three pieces gives $\Gamma_n(j,k)\to0$.[/guided]