[guided]The point of the Hodge-star identity is that it determines which factors the starred form must contribute to make a top-degree volume form. We use the standard Hermitian convention $\beta\wedge \overline{*_x\gamma}=(\beta,\gamma)_x\,\operatorname{vol}_x$ for forms $\beta$ and $\gamma$ of the same total degree. Here $\operatorname{vol}_x$ has type $(n,n)$, because it is a nonzero multiple of $\theta_1\wedge\cdots\wedge\theta_n\wedge \overline{\theta_1}\wedge\cdots\wedge\overline{\theta_n}$.
Now set $\beta=\gamma=e_{I,J}=\theta_I\wedge\overline{\theta_J}$. Since the coframe is unitary, the wedge monomials $e_{I,J}$ are orthonormal for the induced Hermitian inner product, so $(e_{I,J},e_{I,J})_x=1$. Thus the defining identity gives $e_{I,J}\wedge \overline{*_x e_{I,J}}=\operatorname{vol}_x$.
This equation forces a type count. The form $e_{I,J}$ already contributes $p$ holomorphic factors and $q$ antiholomorphic factors. A nonzero top-type form of type $(n,n)$ must contain exactly $n$ holomorphic factors and exactly $n$ antiholomorphic factors. Hence $\overline{*_x e_{I,J}}$ must contribute $n-p$ holomorphic factors and $n-q$ antiholomorphic factors. Equivalently, $\overline{*_x e_{I,J}}\in \Lambda_x^{n-p,n-q}$. Finally, complex conjugation swaps the two type indices: the conjugate of a form of type $(a,b)$ has type $(b,a)$. Applying this to $\overline{*_x e_{I,J}}$ gives $*_x e_{I,J}\in \Lambda_x^{n-q,n-p}$. This is exactly the desired type change.[/guided]