[guided]The pointwise computation is the whole content of the theorem. Fix $x\in X$, and choose a unitary coframe
\begin{align*}
\theta_1,\dots,\theta_n\in T_x^{1,0}X^*
\end{align*}
for the Hermitian metric at $x$. The point of using a unitary coframe is that the induced wedge basis is orthonormal, so the Hermitian pairing becomes the standard coordinate pairing on coefficients.
Let $\mathcal I_r$ be the set of strictly increasing $r$-tuples in $\{1,\dots,n\}$. For $I=(i_1,\dots,i_p)\in\mathcal I_p$ and $J=(j_1,\dots,j_q)\in\mathcal I_q$, define
\begin{align*}
e_{I,J}:=\theta_{i_1}\wedge\cdots\wedge\theta_{i_p}\wedge\overline{\theta_{j_1}}\wedge\cdots\wedge\overline{\theta_{j_q}}.
\end{align*}
These forms constitute an orthonormal basis of $\Lambda^{p,q}T_x^*X$ for the Hermitian metric induced on exterior powers. Therefore there are unique coefficients $a_{I,J},b_{I,J}\in\mathbb C$ such that
\begin{align*}
\alpha_x=\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} a_{I,J}e_{I,J}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
\beta_x=\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} b_{I,J}e_{I,J}.
\end{align*}
Because the Hermitian pairing is linear in the first argument and conjugate-linear in the second, orthonormal coordinates give
\begin{align*}
(\beta_x,\alpha_x)_{g,x}
=
\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} b_{I,J}\overline{a_{I,J}}.
\end{align*}
Now conjugate the basis. Complex conjugation sends $(1,0)$-covectors to $(0,1)$-covectors and sends $(0,1)$-covectors to $(1,0)$-covectors, so it sends $(p,q)$-forms to $(q,p)$-forms. Define
\begin{align*}
f_{I,J}:=\overline{e_{I,J}}\in \Lambda^{q,p}T_x^*X.
\end{align*}
The only small sign issue is the order of the wedge factors: $\overline{e_{I,J}}$ places the conjugates in the order inherited from $e_{I,J}$, while the usual ordered $(q,p)$-basis places the $(1,0)$-factors first. Moving the $q$ factors past the $p$ factors introduces the sign $(-1)^{pq}$. Thus $f_{I,J}$ is still an orthonormal basis vector, and the whole family $(f_{I,J})_{I,J}$ is orthonormal.
Complex conjugation also conjugates the coefficients, so
\begin{align*}
\overline{\alpha_x}
=
\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} \overline{a_{I,J}}f_{I,J}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
\overline{\beta_x}
=
\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} \overline{b_{I,J}}f_{I,J}.
\end{align*}
Applying the same linear-in-first Hermitian pairing convention in this orthonormal basis gives
\begin{align*}
(\overline{\alpha_x},\overline{\beta_x})_{g,x}
=
\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} \overline{a_{I,J}}\,\overline{\overline{b_{I,J}}}.
\end{align*}
Since $\overline{\overline{b_{I,J}}}=b_{I,J}$, this becomes
\begin{align*}
(\overline{\alpha_x},\overline{\beta_x})_{g,x}
=
\sum_{I\in\mathcal I_p}\sum_{J\in\mathcal I_q} b_{I,J}\overline{a_{I,J}}.
\end{align*}
Comparing with the earlier expression for $(\beta_x,\alpha_x)_{g,x}$ proves the pointwise identity
\begin{align*}
(\overline{\alpha_x},\overline{\beta_x})_{g,x}=(\beta_x,\alpha_x)_{g,x}.
\end{align*}[/guided]