[proofplan]
We prove non-metrizability by contradiction. First we record the key separation failure of the [cofinite topology](/page/Cofinite%20Topology) on an infinite set: any two nonempty open subsets must intersect. If a metric induced the cofinite topology, then two distinct points would have disjoint metric balls around them, producing two disjoint nonempty cofinite-open sets. This contradicts the intersection property.
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[step:Show that any two nonempty cofinite open sets intersect]
Let $U,V\in\tau_{\mathrm{cof}}$ be nonempty open subsets of $X$. Since $U$ and $V$ are nonempty and open in the cofinite topology, the complements $X\setminus U$ and $X\setminus V$ are finite subsets of $X$. Hence their union
\begin{align*}
(X\setminus U)\cup(X\setminus V)
\end{align*}
is finite. By De Morgan's law,
\begin{align*}
X\setminus(U\cap V)=(X\setminus U)\cup(X\setminus V).
\end{align*}
If $U\cap V=\varnothing$, then $X\setminus(U\cap V)=X$, so $X$ would be finite. This contradicts the hypothesis that $X$ is infinite. Therefore $U\cap V\neq\varnothing$.
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[step:Assume a metric induces the cofinite topology]
Suppose, for contradiction, that $(X,\tau_{\mathrm{cof}})$ is metrizable. Then there exists a metric
\begin{align*}
d:X\times X\to[0,\infty)
\end{align*}
such that the topology induced by $d$ is exactly $\tau_{\mathrm{cof}}$. Since $X$ is infinite, choose two distinct points $a,b\in X$. Because $d$ is a metric and $a\neq b$, the number $d(a,b)$ is positive. Define
\begin{align*}
r=\frac{d(a,b)}{3}.
\end{align*}
Then $r>0$.
[guided]
We now assume the opposite of what we want to prove. Metrizability means that there is a genuine metric
\begin{align*}
d:X\times X\to[0,\infty)
\end{align*}
whose open sets are exactly the sets in $\tau_{\mathrm{cof}}$. The word metric is important here: for distinct points, the distance is strictly positive.
Because $X$ is infinite, it contains at least two distinct points. Choose $a,b\in X$ with $a\neq b$. The metric separation axiom gives
\begin{align*}
d(a,b)>0.
\end{align*}
Set
\begin{align*}
r=\frac{d(a,b)}{3}.
\end{align*}
Then $r>0$. The purpose of choosing one third of the distance is to create two metric balls around $a$ and $b$ that cannot overlap, by the triangle inequality.
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[step:Construct two disjoint nonempty metric open balls]
Define the metric open balls
\begin{align*}
B_d(a,r)=\{x\in X:d(a,x)<r\}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
B_d(b,r)=\{x\in X:d(b,x)<r\}.
\end{align*}
These sets are nonempty because $a\in B_d(a,r)$ and $b\in B_d(b,r)$. They are open in the topology induced by $d$, hence they belong to $\tau_{\mathrm{cof}}$.
We claim that $B_d(a,r)\cap B_d(b,r)=\varnothing$. If $x\in B_d(a,r)\cap B_d(b,r)$, then the triangle inequality gives
\begin{align*}
d(a,b)\leq d(a,x)+d(x,b)<r+r=2r.
\end{align*}
Since $r=d(a,b)/3$, this says
\begin{align*}
d(a,b)<\frac{2}{3}d(a,b),
\end{align*}
which is impossible because $d(a,b)>0$. Therefore the two balls are disjoint.
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[step:Derive the contradiction and conclude non-metrizability]
The previous step produced two nonempty sets $B_d(a,r),B_d(b,r)\in\tau_{\mathrm{cof}}$ with
\begin{align*}
B_d(a,r)\cap B_d(b,r)=\varnothing.
\end{align*}
This contradicts the fact that any two nonempty open sets in the cofinite topology on an infinite set must intersect. Hence no metric on $X$ induces $\tau_{\mathrm{cof}}$, and therefore $(X,\tau_{\mathrm{cof}})$ is not metrizable.
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