[step:Bound $\|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}$ from below by $\|T\|_{\mathcal L(H,K)}^2$]
If $H=\{0\}$, then $T$ is the zero map from $H$ to $K$, so $\|T\|_{\mathcal L(H,K)}=0$. The upper bound already proved gives $\|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}\le 0$, while the operator norm is non-negative by [citetheorem:9323]. Hence
\begin{align*}
\|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}=0=\|T\|_{\mathcal L(H,K)}^2.
\end{align*}
It remains to consider the case $H\ne\{0\}$.
Let $x\in H$ satisfy $\|x\|_H=1$. The adjoint identity with $y=Tx$ gives
\begin{align*}
\|Tx\|_K^2=(Tx,Tx)_K=(x,T^*Tx)_H.
\end{align*}
Taking absolute values and applying the Cauchy-Schwarz inequality in $H$,
\begin{align*}
\|Tx\|_K^2\le \|x\|_H\|T^*Tx\|_H.
\end{align*}
Since $\|x\|_H=1$, this becomes
\begin{align*}
\|Tx\|_K^2\le \|T^*Tx\|_H.
\end{align*}
By [citetheorem:9321] applied to $T^*T\in\mathcal L(H,H)$,
\begin{align*}
\|T^*Tx\|_H\le \|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}\|x\|_H=\|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}.
\end{align*}
Hence
\begin{align*}
\|Tx\|_K^2\le \|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}
\end{align*}
for every unit vector $x\in H$. Taking the supremum over all $x\in H$ with $\|x\|_H=1$ and using [citetheorem:9320],
\begin{align*}
\|T\|_{\mathcal L(H,K)}^2\le \|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}.
\end{align*}
Combining this lower bound with the upper bound from the previous step gives
\begin{align*}
\|T^*T\|_{\mathcal L(H,H)}=\|T\|_{\mathcal L(H,K)}^2.
\end{align*}
This proves both asserted identities.
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