[guided]The first point is purely structural. The ideal $I_+(X)$ is defined degree by degree: its degree-$d$ piece consists exactly of the homogeneous degree-$d$ forms that vanish at every point of $X$. Therefore, if a polynomial lies in $I_+(X)$, each of its homogeneous pieces also lies in $I_+(X)$. This is precisely the compatibility with the standard grading of
$R=k[x_0,\ldots,x_n]$, so $I_+(X)$ is a homogeneous ideal.
Now use the hypothesis that $X$ is nonempty. Choose
$p=[a_0:\cdots:a_n]\in X$. Since this is a point of [projective space](/page/Projective%20Space), the tuple $(a_0,\ldots,a_n)$ is not the zero tuple, so there is an index $i\in\{0,\ldots,n\}$ with $a_i\neq 0$. The constant polynomial $1$ evaluates to $1$ at every representative of $p$, so $1$ does not vanish on $X$. Thus $1\notin I_+(X)$, and $I_+(X)$ is a proper ideal.
For the irrelevant ideal, the same point gives the obstruction. Since $a_i\neq 0$, the homogeneous coordinate function $x_i$ satisfies
\begin{align*}
x_i(a_0,\ldots,a_n)=a_i\neq 0.
\end{align*}
Thus $x_i\notin I_+(X)$. Because $x_i\in (x_0,\ldots,x_n)$, the containment $(x_0,\ldots,x_n)\subset I_+(X)$ is impossible.[/guided]