[guided]We want to compare the two topologies, and a norm topology is controlled by its open balls. The useful point is that the norm comparison can be applied not only to a vector $v$, but also to the difference vector $y-x$ measuring the distance from $y$ to the center $x$.
Let $m,M>0$ be constants such that, for every $v\in V$,
\begin{align*}
m\|v\|_a\leq \|v\|_b\leq M\|v\|_a.
\end{align*}
For $x\in V$ and $r>0$, define
\begin{align*}
B_a(x,r)=\{y\in V:\|y-x\|_a<r\}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
B_b(x,r)=\{y\in V:\|y-x\|_b<r\}.
\end{align*}
First fix $x\in V$ and $r>0$. To put a $\|\cdot\|_a$-ball inside the $\|\cdot\|_b$-ball $B_b(x,r)$, we choose the smaller radius $r/M$. If $y\in B_a(x,r/M)$, then
\begin{align*}
\|y-x\|_a<r/M.
\end{align*}
Applying the upper inequality $\|v\|_b\leq M\|v\|_a$ to the vector $v=y-x$, we obtain
\begin{align*}
\|y-x\|_b\leq M\|y-x\|_a<r.
\end{align*}
Hence $y\in B_b(x,r)$, and therefore
\begin{align*}
B_a(x,r/M)\subset B_b(x,r).
\end{align*}
Conversely, to put a $\|\cdot\|_b$-ball inside the $\|\cdot\|_a$-ball $B_a(x,r)$, we choose the radius $mr$. If $y\in B_b(x,mr)$, then
\begin{align*}
\|y-x\|_b<mr.
\end{align*}
Applying the lower inequality $m\|v\|_a\leq \|v\|_b$ to $v=y-x$, we get
\begin{align*}
m\|y-x\|_a\leq \|y-x\|_b<mr.
\end{align*}
Since $m>0$, dividing by $m$ gives
\begin{align*}
\|y-x\|_a<r.
\end{align*}
Thus $y\in B_a(x,r)$, so
\begin{align*}
B_b(x,mr)\subset B_a(x,r).
\end{align*}[/guided]