**Step 3 (insert the equations for $G$ and $u$ and identify the terms).**
Since $-\Delta_y G(x,\cdot)=\delta_x$ and $-\Delta u = f$ in $U$, and $G(x,\cdot)=0$ on $\partial U$, we compute:
\begin{align*}
\text{LHS of (2)}
&= \int_U u(y)\, \Delta_y G(x,y) \, d\mathcal{L}^n(y) \;-\; \int_U G(x,y)\, \Delta u(y) \, d\mathcal{L}^n(y) \\
&= - \,\langle \delta_x, u \rangle \;+\; \int_U f(y)\, G(x,y) \, d\mathcal{L}^n(y) \\
&= -\, u(x) \;+\; \int_U f(y)\, G(x,y) \, d\mathcal{L}^n(y), \tag{3}
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align*}
\text{RHS of (2)}
&= \int_{\partial U} u(y)\,\partial_\nu G(x,y)\, d\mathcal{H}^{n-1}(y) \;-\; \underbrace{\int_{\partial U} G(x,y)\,\partial_\nu u(y)\, d\mathcal{H}^{n-1}(y)}_{=\,0 \text{ since } G(x,\cdot)=0 \text{ on } \partial U}} \\
&= \int_{\partial U} g(y)\,\partial_\nu G(x,y)\, d\mathcal{H}^{n-1}(y). \tag{4}
\end{align*}